Seattle's Child

Your guide to a kid-friendly city

my grandfather's voice says vote

The author's grandfather, Thomas Murfin, with one of his many grandchildren. Photo courtesy Julie Murfin Pielemeier

A grandfather’s voice

Tell kids and especially teens that their vote is their voice

As a foreign diplomat, my grandfather cared deeply about civic duty. Walking to the polls with him is one of my happiest memories, one that floats to the surface each time a voterā€™s pamphlet or ballot arrives in the mail.

Ā ā€œVoting is not just a right,ā€ heā€™d pontificate. ā€œItā€™s a duty and the backbone of our democracy.ā€ And then heā€™d launch into the story of how my great-grandfather, a Washington state senator, went out and talked to every voter in Sunnyside, Washington ā€” on foot, for many miles, through knee-deep snow ā€¦

Walking the talk

During my teenage years, my grandfather would review the voter pamphlet with me, reading the candidate statements out loud (much to my grandmotherā€™s chagrin). Weā€™d discuss my thoughts and heā€™d listen to my reasoning. The minute I turned 18 ā€” on my birthday ā€” my grandfather took me to register to vote. In celebration of my first vote, my grandmother baked a red, white, and blue cake with my name on it, as though Iā€™d just been born into democracy.

My kids received a similar civics lesson. ā€œYour vote,ā€ they heard repeatedly from us, ā€œis your voice.ā€

A lot of unheard voices

In the midst of the presidential campaign drama and the monumental redirect to Kamala Harris as the Democratic candidate, I began to look at voting data from the last presidential election. One statistic caught my attention:Ā 

According to Tufts Universityā€™s nonpartisan research group CIRCLE, 50% of young people ages 18-29 voted in the 2020 presidential election.

Washington stateā€™s young voters werenā€™t much better than the national accounting. While Washington ranked 12th in terms of highest voter turnout at 67%, according to state voter participation data only half of the 687,843 eligible voters ages 18 to 24 in our state cast a vote in that election.

In King County, youth turned out in higher numbers than the rest of the state, as did all the voters in all age categories. Nevertheless, nearly 31,000 eligible voters ages 18-24 and 200,000 of all adult eligible voters in King County stayed home on presidential election day in 2020.

The importance of voting

Especially as the highly contentious presidential election draws near, I canā€™t help but think about my grandfather and his mantra.Ā 

ā€œEvery vote matters,ā€ he would say. In other words, ā€œYOU matter.ā€Ā 

Itā€™s something our kids, especially teens on the cusp of adulthood, need to hear. Itā€™s especially important when our personal rights are at stake.

Yes, many young people express apathy about politics. But make no mistake. They are worried.

Tell them what matters

My grandfather, who lived through two world wars, a depression, and seven decades of voting, would say that America is no place for voter apathy ā€” in any age category. Our hope for the future, he would argue, is to tell our children, early and often, ā€œYour vote is your voice.ā€

I hope youā€™ll follow his lead: involve your kids as you fill out your ballot. Go through the candidate statements with your teens, and remind them that, as of 2022, 17-year-olds in Washington can register and vote in primaries as long as they will turn 18 by the following general election. Take them to register and stick that ballot, when it comes, on their pillows with a note that reads ā€œPlease vote.ā€

Assure them, again: ā€œYOU matter.ā€Ā Ā 

Read more:

Should young kids go to protests?

Gun Violence: We can stop this public health crisis

Students to lead forum with SPI candidates

About the Author

Cheryl Murfin

Cheryl Murfin is managing editor at Seattle's Child. She is also a certified doula, lactation educator for NestingInstinctsSeattle.com and a certified AWA writing workshop facilitator at Compasswriters.com.